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Frank · Joined: 21 May 2007 Posts: 11

Self-explanatory really. Do couples really need to get married?

christine · Joined: 20 Jun 2007 Posts: 13

I think marriage is the most wonderful thing if 2 really love each other so much and fully committed.
but seems like more and more people do not want to get married, there are of course many reasons. some even predict that marriage will eventually disappear in modern society.
but i am happy to live in these decades when marriage and family is still mainstream, as i would like to get married when i find the mr right.

Will · Site Admin Joined: 04 May 2007 Posts: 76

I would not say anyone needs to get married, however it does seem to be a natural progression from courtship. I think though you might get different answers from men and women. Many men no longer feel marriage is necessary, whereas women who want children are often left with no choice but to find a suitable partner to look after them while they stay home from work to look after the child. Of course marriage is not a prerequisite here, but the perceived stability that comes with it definitely is something a mother would desire.

Anna · Joined: 05 May 2007 Posts: 42

I would like to present to you here Russian woman attitude to marriage. It is simple: they want to get married. The society pressurizes them to do this in their early 20 th. Average age of getting married in Russia is 24. If they are over thirty years old, the likelihood of them getting married in Russia is virtually nil. That is why some of them have turned to foreign men, not as a first choice, but because they realize that their chances of getting married are slipping away. They are well-educated professional people. They most likely have a secure job with a good career in Russia, so where this desperation comes from? Russians are raised to be dependent on those around them. Their future husband is their only source of economic security and protection – this is the thought with what they were growing up. Most Russian women don’t believe that they will be able to survive on their own. They want to love and be loved as well and to have a rewarding sex life. To get married and have a happy home life can be for some of them one of the possible ways of self-realization in life. The same like to be successful in her career for example.

Kwitka · Joined: 17 May 2007 Posts: 29

To my mind it is not necessary to marry both for man and for woman. There are but some social and financial difficulties connected to this. Many people do marry to pay a lower tax or for formalities connected to child birth or for visa reasons. It doesn’t mean they don’t love each other, but marriage became just a red tape in nowadays.

Josef · Joined: 22 May 2007 Posts: 26

I think marriage is traditionally more important for a woman then for a man. Women believe in a beautiful fairy-tale, wating for their Prince and there are some men that would like to please their loved one by making this come true.

Judith · Joined: 06 May 2008 Posts: 11

I think marriage is not important at all. Two people can love each other without stamp in their passport or parents’ blessings. I know many people who are unhappily married and marriage did not help them to stick together and safe their feelings if there were any from the start.

Will · Site Admin Joined: 04 May 2007 Posts: 76

I am curious as to whether or not there is any truth in the theory that marriage adds an extra dimension to a relationship which strengthens it and helps people stay together. I suspect it may have a slight impact. Nowadays however, the reason for marriage is often more a tax incentive than a religious/society one.

stargazer123 · Joined: 24 Jul 2008 Posts: 3

Marriage is important for Christian. The couple has strong relationship when they are married but broke up will come after a years. If you have plan to marriage, you have a basic income for family living and see to it both of you have trust, loyal, respect and understanding.

sandy2008 · Joined: 23 Oct 2008 Posts: 2

Yes, Marriage is necessary.
I think that marriage is very important things in human life.
Marriage is an institution in which interpersonal relationships are acknowledged by the state or by religious authority.
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Kaedn · Guest

It is so nice to hear that some people still wait for their wedding night! There is no "normal". Since you've waited, you might end up having it a bit more often than people who have been intimate for years. Then again, you might enjoy just spending time with your new husband. Intimacy isn't limited to the bedroom. Realize that now and you will always have a loving marriage - you can be intimate with just a look, holdnig hands, cuddling, sharing your dreams and hopes for the future. If you "make love" like that all day long, when you do have sex it will be extra special, loving and exciting.

daisyallen · Joined: 29 May 2010 Posts: 3

As per my opinion marriage should really change a relationship. It's just kind of a next step if your planning on spending your life with someone. Sort of a fun celebration of deciding to spend your lives together.