Dating Advice
The problem with online dating is that you need to be sure that what you are after is provided by the site you are using. There are many sites which serve a niche market and you do not wish to inadvertently end up there if it is not your intention. For instance, trying to find a soul-mate partner on a sexual submission site might not work to your advantage.
On the same note, make sure that what you are after does not cause offence to the majority of users on a site. If PVC and whips are your thing, then think again about joining the various Christian dating sites… they might not be too happy when you contact them looking for willing dungeon dwellers.
There are many sites out there for many different tastes in relationship and interests. If you need a specialist site, then find one. On a more general level, most people in the Western world wish to just meet someone for a few dates to see what develops. If you are hungry for children and desperately want marriage, then perhaps this could also be deemed a specialist interest and you would be better suited to joining a marriage agency. As a hint for women, if you appear too desperate to get married, men sense something is wrong and start to run… and rightly so. Go for the relationship first and if you are well suited, then marriage would normally follow… try it the other way round and people in the Western world will doubt your sincerity to your new found partner.
Click in Love is both an introduction agency and a dating website. We aim to facilitate the dating/meeting process for genuine people in search of love. We believe in love, romance and all things that come with a dedicated genuine relationship. People who use our site do so with the intention of forming relationships; not business relationships (such as what many intercultural marriages appear to be, where the man gets someone to have sex with, who irons his shirt and cooks for him, whilst the woman gets money, stability, visa and a family all based in a rich Western country). At Click in Love, we deal with intercultural relationships where both partners want more than the basics. If you feel you want something like this, then this site is for you. If you are after something different (and there is nothing wrong with that) then I ask you to respectively remember that this site is for people looking for love and romance, so perhaps you are better suited choosing a more fitting site for your requirements.
May 9th, 2008 at 12:47 pm
there is a boy he is my best friend and i like him very much. and now i think i am fall in love with him. but i think still he think that i am his just good friend. but really i love him. and i do not have courage to say him that i love him. i just want to him and want to get him at any cost. so can you help me? please suggest me what should i do?
May 9th, 2008 at 3:23 pm
If you are young (say a teenager or thereabouts), then you need to decide if you are willing to lose his friendship if you were to go for a relationship and it failed. This is a very possible scenario and without sounding patronising, statistically it most likely will happen.
If you wish to take the risk to change your friendship into something more romantic, then you need to speak to him about it. Males are often not very receptive to subtle signals (which often leaves women thinking that the man does not like her, whereas in reality he is either playing safe by feigning ignorance or else has completely missed her ‘obvious’ signals). One way to communicate is to speak plainly, but in a non-committal way, so as not to embarass yourself if he wants to remain friends. Drop clear hints and joke about what you want and see if he picks up the real meaning. If this fails, then have a serious conversation with him about how you feel, but always leave it open to him that you value your friendship at least as importantly as any possible romantic relationship. This will help prevent everything going sour.
May 13th, 2008 at 3:58 am
Certainly you should only post profiles or join a site that is suitable to your likes/dislikes. There are plenty of online dating sites so finding one should not be hard. You have the big three, Match, eHarmony and YahooPersonals and there are plenty of niche site that cater to unique ‘tastes’